MARCH 25, 2022
Q. How old are you?1
A. I’m 64.
Is there another age you associate with yourself in your mind?
Yes. My current age always seems like a jolt, as if someone bumped into me on the street while I wasn’t looking.
When I was prepubescent, I remember longing to be 16, then longing to be 27, and again longing to be 30—all the way to longing to be post-menopause.
If you do associate your current self with a particular age, what is it?
This question is a popular one to ask women.
You don’t often hear a man asked, what “age” he is, in his mind. There’s something infantilizing about it—but also imaginative.