When No Means I Didn’t Know It Would Be Like This

I fell out of the Bed Race at the University of Arkansas

I don't get very many opportunities to speak in the Bible Belt. When a graduate student named Lorraine invited me to speak to gay and lesbian students at the Univerisity of Arkansas in Fayetteville, I was curious.

"How many people are in the Gay Student Union?" I asked.

"Well, I'm just about it," she said. "I mean, there's lots of folks who will come hear…