The Velvet Fist
When women talk about sex together
0h, sodomy. . . It doesn't come as naturally as the puritans would like to fear. We stumble and fumble and watch dirty movies for tips, but there's a lot to the details that doesn't get talked about.
For example: I once had the pleasure of hosting the first hands-on lesbian fisting workshop in Seattle, during the inaugural Living In Leather conference.
Curling up inside your lover’s body doesn’t really have anything to do with leather, but they were the ones who understood, and in Seattle, that was many many women who saw the light.
Such an outrageous subject required a little extra preparation.
My friend, Lamar Van Dyke, promised me a real doctor's exam table for the big day, so we could arrange a comfortable viewing platform. I took out a classified ad in the Seattle Gay News, to recruit "vaginally-able volunteers" for participants.
I got a couple of crank calls, but one jewel. A woman named Donna said that she and her lover were fisting “gourmets,” and that she would…